I love that this episode made me Google the bacon and egg phrase. This is what I found:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Chicken_and_the_Pig
I thought I would get more answers but that Wiki articles just makes me have more questions!
And as someone who has done a lot of waitressing--of course our job is to serve the customer but being hailed in a pleasant and kind manner really helps to make the experience nicer for everyone involved. Being pushy about getting attention almost always is perceived as rude, even if the rudeness was not the intent.
Thanks to the Judge for helping the defendant recognize that waitrons are people too!